Should I Stay or Should I Go? May We Consider the Option of Neither.
Are you overwhelmed by the same conflict, the never-ending pattern of distress, and the piles of damage built up in your relationship with your intimate partner? To those of you who are so beat up you're feeling as if no amount of counseling or change in your significant other could bring your relationship back to the place it needs to be, maybe the answer isn't more effort or energy (right now), and maybe the answer isn't to leave (right now). Maybe the answer is to wait. An
