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May We Introduce the Duo to Your Dichotomy?
Life often presents us with moments that feel confusing because we experience more than one emotion at the same time. You might feel happy for a friend’s success while also feeling sadness about your own struggles. This experience is a perfect example of duality —the presence of two opposing feelings existing together. Conversely, dichotomy is a distinction between black and white. It is often how we are taught to learn and differentiate and it can create an unrealistic belie


Wedding Date, Photographer, Catering, and Counseling... Here's Why to Say YES to Premarital Counseling
Premarital counseling is:
Structured and topic-based
Focused on many levels of a relationship
Helps lay the foundation of a healthy relationship
Shorter term process with the idea that the space becomes comfortable enough to seek out couples counseling as needed for the future


Is Therapy Your New Year's Resolution? Why Healthy Change is Great as a Resolution and Why it's Not.
Just like any resolution or desire to adopt healthy routines or changes, we believe the time isn't tomorrow nor in a month, or even an hour. The time is now. Resolutions in the new year are meaningful as they can signify the start of a new chapter, but waiting to resolve something can be an accidental practice of procrastinating positive or healthy change. As therapists, we know the other side of the couch can be intimidating. There are natural fears, concerns, and reservatio


Secrets to a Well-Adjusted Lifestyle
While the scientific lens adds specific goals or milestones for what is "typical" or normative for each developmental stage, in mental...


Changing Patterns - The Ultimate Life Hack
How many of us have found ourselves stuck in what feels like an impossible or overwhelming rut of poor eating/exercising habits, only to...


The CURING power of CURIOSITY
To those of you out there who like to metaphorically (or perhaps literally) whip yourselves into shape, this is for you. I'm looking for...


Perfectionism: The Gift and The Disease
As a high performing athlete, my entire life was geared around the incessant perfecting, refining and critiquing of my athletic skills. I...


Step-ing into the Spotlight: Where No Perfection Is "Perfect Enough"
The task of becoming a parent in an instant (without the traditional 9 months, or in some cases years, of planning and preparation) may...


Pandemic Fatigue Amongst the Work-From-Home/Stay-At-Home, or "Stuck-At-Home" Moms
From the months of December 2019-February 2020, the number of women in the workplace had actually surpassed their male counterparts for...


Trial Separation: Is it the Beginning to the End?
While taking time apart from one another can be both healthy and beneficial to a couple's relationship, there are many couples who never...


Does 2020 Have You Feeling Overwhelmed, Confused, and Simply Exhausted?
To those of you who find comfort in routines, predictability, and quite frankly liked life in 2019 a heck of a lot better than the life...


When Mother’s Day Isn’t Your Day
Struggling to find your place this Mother's Day? Your value is in the type of person you are, not in the status of your "motherhood."


How Having a False Reality Leads to Anxiety and Panic During a Global Crisis
While I won't begin to tackle any aspect of Covid-19 from a biological standpoint, psychologically speaking, there is a great deal to be...


Conflict Is Not Immune to Covid-19, but Communication Is the Antibody
The recent Covid-19 outbreak poses more than a threat to our immediate health. While stress from the pandemic and its impact on our...


Untold Experiences of The Retired Athlete
To the athlete who has lost so much more than just a game.


Secrets Behind Relationship Conflict - Why Fighting May Not Be So Bad After All
A lifetime of joy and contentment with another person does not just "happen" by luck or by chance. While the end goal, when it comes to...


Mind Blowing Dichotomies Every Athlete Faces
To the aspiring young athlete- 10 things I wish I knew when I were in your shoes


"Spare the rod, spoil the child:" Maybe, or maybe not?
I often wonder how far "off" we land from what God (or any religious teaching) originally intended their words to mean. Consider with me,...


An Open Letter From a Girl Marrying a Guy with Kids
Three years ago I met the man of my dreams. He is compassionate, funny, and bears a smile that, to this day, attracts my whole body's...


Always Worried About "Saying the Right Thing?" Am I Awkward, Anxious, or Am I Simply an Introvert
Whether unenthused about flying solo at the next wedding, or overwhelmed with dread of the next mandatory networking event, all social...
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